The POWER of Masculine & Feminine Energy

Updated: Oct 18, 2018


Today is day 5 in our 9 day relationship series, and we’re talking about masculine and feminine energies. In order for our Earth to spin in perfect trajectory around the sun, there needs to be North and South poles. For electricity there needs to be a positive and negative charge. In order for there to be passion and attraction in your relationship, you need a positive and negative charge. This means one person is more masculine and the other is more feminine, which has nothing to do with whether you’re a man or woman. We all have masculine and feminine energies, but one is more dominant.

There are 3 basic traits for masculine energy, which are autonomy, rights, and justice. Masculine energy is all about focus, determination, transcending, evolving, taking something big and making it small. The healthy side is all about going to the next level, knowing who you are without relationships. But this is also a bad trait as masculine people isolate themselves a lot. This is why masculine men come home from work and go into their man caves, and then wake up and repeat the process. You need masculine energy to do business, put a plan together, and break through challenges.

Feminine energy is about solving problems by talking to people, which is why women go to the bathroom together. The 3 basic traits are communion, caring, and responsibility. It’s more about descending than transcending, and finding your identity through relationships. The feminine will take something small and make it a big experience, and develop relationships with god, nature, and people. Feminine energy is playful, flirty, fun, and light. The downside of feminine energy is that they seek identity through relationships too much, and don’t develop their individuality. The first step is always to know thyself, know your dominant energy. After that you understand what energy your partner is, and that of others around you.

If both partners are neutral in their energies, there’s no sexual attraction and you’re just friends, one person needs to step up and turn up their masculine or feminine. One of the keys to energy maturity is being able to navigate and turn on the right energies in the right situations. If you’re trying to get a promotion at work, then tap into your masculine energy. If you’re playing with your kids, tap more into your feminine energy.

If it’s important for you to experience life at the deepest level, then you need to understand these energies. If you’re not in a relationship you’ll attract someone who is the opposite charge to you, whether you like it or not. So if you want to attract a feminine female, but you are also feminine, then you need to find a way to ignite your masculine energy in order to get what you want. This is important in any area of life, whether that’s in a relationship, at work, or at home. Know your energy, know your partner, your friends and family, and learn how the charge happens in order to re-polarize and rekindle your relationships.

To your continued evolution, live it up with POWER, PURPOSE & PASSION!


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Anthony Cheam

Speaker/Author/Life Coach/Personal Trainer


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